We gather here to honor the memory of Mr. Hayford, a man whose extraordinary friendship with my father, David Akiti, blossomed into a bond that extended to our entire family. He was a loving and exemplary person, embodying the true meaning of friendship and fatherhood.
Growing up, I vividly recall Mr. Hayford’s daily visits after work, his face beaming with cheerfulness as he showered us with gifts. He quickly became more than a friend; he became a beloved father figure. He became an integral part of our lives, caring deeply for each of us and forging unique connections with everyone in the family. Whether it was offering guidance, resolving conflicts, or simply sharing a laugh, Mr. Hayford was always there, a pillar of support and unwavering love.
My father, who affectionately called him Kwadjo, often spoke of their adventures and shared experiences. Their bond was a beautiful testament to the power of friendship, filled with mutual admiration, respect, and unwavering loyalty. Never once did I witness a moment of discord between them; their friendship was always on the upswing, a constant source of joy and laughter.
When my father David passed away unexpectedly in 2014, Mr. Hayford stepped into the role of father with grace and compassion. He became our confidante, our cheerleader, and our unwavering supporter. He celebrated our milestones, offered words of encouragement, and reminded us of the love and pride our father would have undoubtedly felt.
The loss of my father left a profound void in Mr. Hayford’s heart, but he cherished their memories, often sharing stories of their time together. Their friendship was a constant source of joy, filled with laughter. It was a friendship that knew no bounds, a testament to the enduring power of love and respect.
Even as he neared the end of his journey, Mr. Hayford remained sharp reminiscing about the good old days and reminding us to care for our mother, Portia, whom he held in high regard. His love and concern extended to all of us, cementing his place in our hearts as a true father figure.
Today, we celebrate the life of Mr. Hayford, a man who exemplified the very best of humanity. His laughter, his warmth, his kindness, and his authenticity will forever be etched in our memories. He was a father to us in every sense of the word, a man who loved us unconditionally and supported us through every twist and turn of life
Mr. Hayford, you were an exceptional father to us, a role model, and a guiding light. Your presence in our lives was a gift, and your memory will forever be cherished. We miss your voice, your laughter, and your unwavering support. It seems surreal that we will never hear your voice again, but we find solace in knowing that you are now reunited with our beloved father, David. Together, may you find eternal peace and joy in the presence of the Lord.
Though you may be gone, your legacy will live on in our hearts forever. Rest in perfect peace, dear Mr. Hayford. Until we meet again, know that you will always be remembered and cherished as a true father and an extraordinary friend.